Meeting women online isn’t as easy as it may seem. While you may not need as much game as you would in a face-to-face situation, you still need to know how to approach a woman online. There are several avenues that you can meet women on the internet, but there are standard social norms for how to approach them on each one.
Everyone knows what it means to “slide in someone’s DM.” Even though many women who are verified on Instagram (have a blue check mark next to their name) claim to not check their DMs at all because they are flooded, there are more ways for you to connect with women on this social network. If you are attracted to a stranger on IG, follow them first and occasionally like and comment on their posts. As they become familiar with you, they may follow you back or engage with you in the comment section. If they have a business profile and have their email listed, contact them directly. Be direct with your intentions but be very polite and courteous. In the case that you do not receive a response, you can try to DM and hope for a quick reply.
Connecting with blasts from the past on Facebook may open the doors up for dating new women. Perhaps, you went to the same school with a young woman over a decade ago, but you were not in the same class. Even though you may not have run in the same circles, it doesn’t mean that you are not qualified to ask this woman out on a date. Follow her on Facebook. If there are alumni groups for your school on Facebook, join those. Close the gap between you and your potential love interest, and then just send her a friendly message on the Facebook messenger.
Out of all the social media platforms, Twitter is the most social one. Tweeting is like a cocktail party where you can jump in and out of conversations with ease. If you enjoy tweeting with someone, follow them back, retweet their tweets and leave comments as often as you can. Show interest in their interests so when you DM them, it will be more natural. Your dream girl may be waiting for you to reach out to her for a private chat.
Forums and Game Rooms
You may find yourself having random chat with girls who share similar interests of yours, such as sports, hiking, music, card games, etc. When this happens, you might want to take the conversation offline and see if you have a deeper connection. While many women may not feel comfortable giving out their number, you can always give your email or phone number privately and wait for a response.
While society has come a long way from meeting women in chatrooms only to online dating sites, there are countless ways to find potential dating partners on the internet. Whether it’s signing up for a dating app, sending a direct message or leaving a nice comment on their posts, there are several ways that you can get the attention of a woman who catches your eye.