Comments on: The Top 5 Things Jerks Do To Get Women http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/ Dating & Sex, Men's Health, Men's Style, Guy Stuff, Men's Entertainment Sat, 20 Mar 2010 16:32:50 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Is it just me, or.. - Page 6 - Religious Education Forum http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-8169 Is it just me, or.. - Page 6 - Religious Education Forum Fri, 26 Feb 2010 05:32:29 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-8169 [...] 4. Jerks are honest about what they want 5. Jerks safeguard their self esteem Details here... The Top 5 Things Jerks Do To Get Women | Just A Guy Thing __________________ What one desires to be true, has no bearing on what is actually [...] [...] 4. Jerks are honest about what they want 5. Jerks safeguard their self esteem Details here… The Top 5 Things Jerks Do To Get Women | Just A Guy Thing __________________ What one desires to be true, has no bearing on what is actually [...]

]]> By: dnail http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-8029 dnail Mon, 22 Feb 2010 04:23:11 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-8029 I am what you consider a nice guy to and I hate rejection, I cant stand it and because of that reason I buckle and I don't talk to most women I find attractive because of that. I missed out on so much because of that. Jerks are confident and they go after what they want while nice guys like me don't and I am an attractive guy. But I have to start thinking like a jerk. I cant be so emotionally invested in a girl I don't know when I approached her. I have to not care what she thinks. I have to take her for a grain of salt and move on. This article really changes how I see things now. It isn't that girls like jerks, its just that good guys don't approach them only the jerks. wow I am what you consider a nice guy to and I hate rejection, I cant stand it and because of that reason I buckle and I don’t talk to most women I find attractive because of that. I missed out on so much because of that. Jerks are confident and they go after what they want while nice guys like me don’t and I am an attractive guy. But I have to start thinking like a jerk. I cant be so emotionally invested in a girl I don’t know when I approached her. I have to not care what she thinks. I have to take her for a grain of salt and move on. This article really changes how I see things now. It isn’t that girls like jerks, its just that good guys don’t approach them only the jerks. wow

]]> By: cedx http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-7841 cedx Wed, 17 Feb 2010 07:18:26 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-7841 Wow. These comments have been going on for sometime. I wish my search for answers in personal growth had come earlier. If you're reading, sorry for the choppy writing. You know, I gotta say that it's hard not to disagree with the article nor most of the comments posted. I'm quite sure the article served as new found and enlightening information to many of its readers. I've learned that there's a particular balance of confidence stemmed from my attitude that stems from how I'm feeling that stems from what I'm making of my life, Too high and it's apparent that something is odd. Too low, then well something has to be going wrong. I've learned that women, for the most part tap into that energy to gauge where a guy's head, heart and where he's at in life. I'll have to admit it is EXTREAMLY hard for me to fake being positively energetic when I'm no feeling so well about a certain aspect of my life. I'm a man so I disagree with this type of judgement of men. It isn't quite logical. My dog could have just died. I've read in a few places not to allow my status with a woman dictate the attitude I project onto the world. Although I believe that's a great idea, Now, there's no denying the confidence boost that a successful meet and great or good sex will bring men. Even women. People with great attitudes automatically carry an aurora of good feelings. I think most women who sense this in a man automatically associate him as someone with the ability to get any anything he wants. Nothing "jerky" about that. The woman see this as security as she has it wired in her DNA that she will need someone to provide for her children one day. Now'a days, I run away from the woman that prides herself on being "independent". Sure it's great that you provide for yourself and that makes you happy, but where does the man fit in to all of this? Only in 1 of two places...the guy that reaps the benefits of all her hard work and the guy that sleeps with her for 1 night and move on. Sadly to say that the feeling is mutual. Anyways, after a rough break up, I knew I had to do something about my attitude. I had find a comfortable balance where people felt good being around me and keep it on my mind until it became automatic. When I lost that feeling of being in control, I had to check myself. After a couple months, I ran into that girl again. This is what she said. "I can tell that you're seeing someone, you have this 'glow' about you." (I wasn't seeing anyone at the time but I wasn't going to tell her that!) I was amazed that she said that but it made me realize that not only did she associate my good attitude and upgraded style of dress with success, but that my good attitude helps to show success with some other woman. She would in turn place herself as a possibility. Afterall...even men find women that just can't seem to get a guy naturally unattractive. Wow. These comments have been going on for sometime. I wish my search for answers in personal growth had come earlier. If you’re reading, sorry for the choppy writing.

You know, I gotta say that it’s hard not to disagree with the article nor most of the comments posted. I’m quite sure the article served as new found and enlightening information to many of its readers.

I’ve learned that there’s a particular balance of confidence stemmed from my attitude that stems from how I’m feeling that stems from what I’m making of my life, Too high and it’s apparent that something is odd. Too low, then well something has to be going wrong.
I’ve learned that women, for the most part tap into that energy to gauge where a guy’s head, heart and where he’s at in life. I’ll have to admit it is EXTREAMLY hard for me to fake being positively energetic when I’m no feeling so well about a certain aspect of my life. I’m a man so I disagree with this type of judgement of men. It isn’t quite logical. My dog could have just died.

I’ve read in a few places not to allow my status with a woman dictate the attitude I project onto the world. Although I believe that’s a great idea, Now, there’s no denying the confidence boost that a successful meet and great or good sex will bring men. Even women. People with great attitudes automatically carry an aurora of good feelings. I think most women who sense this in a man automatically associate him as someone with the ability to get any anything he wants. Nothing “jerky” about that. The woman see this as security as she has it wired in her DNA that she will need someone to provide for her children one day. Now’a days, I run away from the woman that prides herself on being “independent”. Sure it’s great that you provide for yourself and that makes you happy, but where does the man fit in to all of this? Only in 1 of two places…the guy that reaps the benefits of all her hard work and the guy that sleeps with her for 1 night and move on. Sadly to say that the feeling is mutual.

Anyways, after a rough break up, I knew I had to do something about my attitude. I had find a comfortable balance where people felt good being around me and keep it on my mind until it became automatic. When I lost that feeling of being in control, I had to check myself. After a couple months, I ran into that girl again. This is what she said. “I can tell that you’re seeing someone, you have this ‘glow’ about you.”
(I wasn’t seeing anyone at the time but I wasn’t going to tell her that!) I was amazed that she said that but it made me realize that not only did she associate my good attitude and upgraded style of dress with success, but that my good attitude helps to show success with some other woman. She would in turn place herself as a possibility.
Afterall…even men find women that just can’t seem to get a guy naturally unattractive.

]]> By: Cyndy http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-7580 Cyndy Thu, 11 Feb 2010 17:50:27 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-7580 As far as I'm concerned, this article hit the nail right on the head! I recognize a jerk when I see one--they seem to be the only one's that have ever asked me out. Here is what I consider to be a man, jerks are not men, they are losers in my book. A man--a nice guy, should he exist ideally would get my attention this way. Want to know me? Smile and say hello when you walk by. Thus breaks the ice and let's me know you noticed me too. When the opportunity comes available talk about casual things (like the weather, the last baseball, football, basketball game--something that interests you.) About the second or third time--preferably the third time we talk, start asking me questions about my likes and dislikes--like what's my favorite resteraunt, things to do on my free time, ect. And take note. In otherwords, remember. Then ask me (the woman you want whoever she is) for her phone number. If she gives it to you that's a good sign. When you call find out what we have in common, then ask me out to dinner and show up with a single flower in your hand as a gift. Be a gentleman and don't put your hands on me at all on that first date. Women like me, who are very attractive, have been the target of jerks and won't put up with someone who shows any sign of being one. After your first date, call (and not two weeks later) the next day. Tactical delays say---I'm a game player, the signature of the jerk. Then go with the flow. Let her know you think she's beautiful. That let's her know your interested in being more than friends. As far as I’m concerned, this article hit the nail right on the head! I recognize a jerk when I see one–they seem to be the only one’s that have ever asked me out. Here is what I consider to be a man, jerks are not men, they are losers in my book. A man–a nice guy, should he exist ideally would get my attention this way. Want to know me? Smile and say hello when you walk by. Thus breaks the ice and let’s me know you noticed me too. When the opportunity comes available talk about casual things (like the weather, the last baseball, football, basketball game–something that interests you.) About the second or third time–preferably the third time we talk, start asking me questions about my likes and dislikes–like what’s my favorite resteraunt, things to do on my free time, ect. And take note. In otherwords, remember. Then ask me (the woman you want whoever she is) for her phone number. If she gives it to you that’s a good sign. When you call find out what we have in common, then ask me out to dinner and show up with a single flower in your hand as a gift. Be a gentleman and don’t put your hands on me at all on that first date. Women like me, who are very attractive, have been the target of jerks and won’t put up with someone who shows any sign of being one. After your first date, call (and not two weeks later) the next day. Tactical delays say—I’m a game player, the signature of the jerk. Then go with the flow. Let her know you think she’s beautiful. That let’s her know your interested in being more than friends.

]]> By: Pabs http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-7014 Pabs Fri, 29 Jan 2010 03:36:46 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-7014 Good read. Some of the articles are also tackled in this site. Read more. CLick to my name. Good read. Some of the articles are also tackled in this site.

Read more. CLick to my name.

]]> By: Kira http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-6496 Kira Thu, 07 Jan 2010 00:39:49 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-6496 wow, i completely agree with this. one of the reasons its so hard for girls just to have guy friends. once they think they find one it turns out that it meant nothing. once the girl makes it clear she doesnt like him, the guy stops talking to her and moves on. all guys should read this, because guys, us girls are suffering!!! cant find a good guy for our lives! wow, i completely agree with this. one of the reasons its so hard for girls just to have guy friends. once they think they find one it turns out that it meant nothing. once the girl makes it clear she doesnt like him, the guy stops talking to her and moves on.

all guys should read this, because guys, us girls are suffering!!! cant find a good guy for our lives!

]]> By: Daron http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-6034 Daron Tue, 15 Dec 2009 03:18:45 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-6034 You are all wrong in different ways. The Jerk vs. Nice guy argument is sidestepping the issue, just like the new show on VH1 hte pickup artist is blatantly hoaxed. Most men who do well with women do so because of their temperament and personality. Having a good temperament means knowing when someone else is worth pursuing and when they are gleefully taking advantage of your time. It also means taking rejection with a grain of salt and moving on. Prioritizing and not time wasting. Level-headedness comes into the picture alongside. Having a good personality means being A) NOT boring. B) Mildly entertaining, without trying too hard. C) NOT annoying. Usually somewhere along the line Nice guys mess up on one of the 3 in almost any given situation. Nonetheless, women like us men have a thing called "tastes". If you don't fit their particular tastes as into what their perception divvy's you to be, then you'll forever be stuck trying to figure out the who, what, where and why they aren't taking a liking to you. Perception is critical when it comes to women. Not so much as it does with men. This is why famous men tend to fair much better with women than your everyday average Joe. They have a good perception with other people and women are very akin to this. This could be said the same for men with loads of money. Typically though, money loses it's effectiveness if you factor in her not being attracted to the man in the first place, her having a poor perception of him and finally him not being interesting enough to pull anything together reasonably. Finally, you CANNOT be nervous around women and fair well in general. This is always bad. Be yourself yes, but also beware of the bs.that people that people like to throw around. Experience is the only teacher for the weary unfortunately and nice men will have to undergo many bad experiences until they strike "the one" if they ever do. Women are not smart, but they are deceptive. The world is not a friendly place. If someone shows you no unpure motives then you have nothing to worry about. If however bad signs, BEWARE. You are all wrong in different ways. The Jerk vs. Nice guy argument is sidestepping the issue, just like the new show on VH1 hte pickup artist is blatantly hoaxed. Most men who do well with women do so because of their temperament and personality. Having a good temperament means knowing when someone else is worth pursuing and when they are gleefully taking advantage of your time. It also means taking rejection with a grain of salt and moving on. Prioritizing and not time wasting. Level-headedness comes into the picture alongside. Having a good personality means being A) NOT boring. B) Mildly entertaining, without trying too hard. C) NOT annoying.

Usually somewhere along the line Nice guys mess up on one of the 3 in almost any given situation. Nonetheless, women like us men have a thing called “tastes”. If you don’t fit their particular tastes as into what their perception divvy’s you to be, then you’ll forever be stuck trying to figure out the who, what, where and why they aren’t taking a liking to you. Perception is critical when it comes to women. Not so much as it does with men. This is why famous men tend to fair much better with women than your everyday average Joe. They have a good perception with other people and women are very akin to this. This could be said the same for men with loads of money. Typically though, money loses it’s effectiveness if you factor in her not being attracted to the man in the first place, her having a poor perception of him and finally him not being interesting enough to pull anything together reasonably.

Finally, you CANNOT be nervous around women and fair well in general. This is always bad. Be yourself yes, but also beware of the bs.that people that people like to throw around. Experience is the only teacher for the weary unfortunately and nice men will have to undergo many bad experiences until they strike “the one” if they ever do. Women are not smart, but they are deceptive. The world is not a friendly place. If someone shows you no unpure motives then you have nothing to worry about. If however bad signs, BEWARE.

]]> By: Parker http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-5696 Parker Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:58:04 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-5696 This has helped me a lot. I'm what you call a "Nice Guy" and every thing you wrote was exactly what I needed to know. There are a couple of jerks at my school that get on my last nerve doing exactly what you said. What I never understood was what girls liked about jerks untill now. Thanks for the help. PK This has helped me a lot. I’m what you call a “Nice Guy” and every thing you wrote was exactly what I needed to know. There are a couple of jerks at my school that get on my last nerve doing exactly what you said. What I never understood was what girls liked about jerks untill now. Thanks for the help.

PK

]]> By: irrational_world http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-5631 irrational_world Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:41:50 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-5631 These dating tip sites are most likely true but not completely. If they are completely true then it sure is sad it works this way but I know almost as a fact that it is not completely true but it does give considerate advice to those who need it or are curious to the "irrational ways" women think lol. To my opinion, one of the biggest reasons women think the way they think is for the fact that this so called "modern society" has lead them to think. Consider what media usually tries to make individuals see on billboards, adds, television or any public place, ask yourselves this, are there any adds that promote good guys getting lucky with women? The answer to this is an obvious "no" and considering most women are already weak in the mind that certainly does not help the situation. I have a strong feeling that years ago when it was the seventies or even the sixties, finding a "hot chick" with values would be an easier task then it is of todays time. In this so called "modern society", intelligence and character are no longer valued. The only thing that is valued is "money" which complicates every situation in life and has made more than half the world superficial idiots to my opinion. All I can say to this is "it is pretty sad to see what the world has come to". These dating tip sites are most likely true but not completely. If they are completely true then it sure is sad it works this way but I know almost as a fact that it is not completely true but it does give considerate advice to those who need it or are curious to the “irrational ways” women think lol. To my opinion, one of the biggest reasons women think the way they think is for the fact that this so called “modern society” has lead them to think. Consider what media usually tries to make individuals see on billboards, adds, television or any public place, ask yourselves this, are there any adds that promote good guys getting lucky with women? The answer to this is an obvious “no” and considering most women are already weak in the mind that certainly does not help the situation. I have a strong feeling that years ago when it was the seventies or even the sixties, finding a “hot chick” with values would be an easier task then it is of todays time. In this so called “modern society”, intelligence and character are no longer valued. The only thing that is valued is “money” which complicates every situation in life and has made more than half the world superficial idiots to my opinion. All I can say to this is “it is pretty sad to see what the world has come to”.

]]> By: Ketai http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-5290 Ketai Tue, 20 Oct 2009 18:36:12 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-5290 Maybe the point of this article is for nice guys to have the traits of jerks but still keep their personality? Maybe the point of this article is for nice guys to have the traits of jerks but still keep their personality?

]]> By: Regis http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-5261 Regis Fri, 16 Oct 2009 17:08:12 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-5261 A freind of mine is a "MR nice guy" His engineer and a very good looking ,funny and has a strong and great personality. He always gets a bad rejections from hot chicks. Last week i was with him and he did talk with a chick and she trated him like a jerk. Yesterday walking around with him we saw the very same girl going out with a broken dirty jerk and she was kissing his hand WOW ? HOW COME ? Here is my take on this: HOT CHICKS goes after JERKS because thay have many things in common: Both CHICKS and JERKS don"t like mathematics (AHHHH!! LOGIC) Both CHICKS and JERKS want the easy way around (They hate to study or work hard) Both JERKS and CHICKS think the same way and therefore tend to meet in the same places and feels much better being togheter. the argument hear from blonds to stop me from thinking logically abut this is " "DID NOT CLICK" Okey ? ok so we hit the wall nothing you can do ?but wait Will it click if i bring you a millionaire ? i bet it will 100% "click" so its not about click but is that most hot chick are attrackted to jerks because they have the same pattern of thinking . Remeber that as a nice guy you can always be a jerk if you want ,but for a jerk its a very hard to be a gentelman ? A freind of mine is a “MR nice guy”

His engineer and a very good looking ,funny and has a strong and great personality.

He always gets a bad rejections from hot chicks.

Last week i was with him and he did talk with a chick and she trated him like a jerk. Yesterday walking around with him we saw the very same girl going out with a broken dirty jerk and she was kissing his hand WOW ? HOW COME ?

Here is my take on this:

HOT CHICKS goes after JERKS because thay have many things in common:

Both CHICKS and JERKS don”t like mathematics (AHHHH!! LOGIC)

Both CHICKS and JERKS want the easy way around (They hate to study or work hard)

Both JERKS and CHICKS think the same way and therefore tend to meet in the same places and feels much better being togheter.

the argument hear from blonds to stop me from thinking logically abut this is ”

“DID NOT CLICK” Okey ? ok so we hit the wall nothing you can do ?but wait

Will it click if i bring you a millionaire ? i bet it will 100% “click” so its not about click but is that most hot chick are attrackted to jerks because they have the same pattern of thinking .

Remeber that as a nice guy you can always be a jerk if you want ,but for a jerk its a very hard to be a gentelman

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]]> By: Austin L http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-5153 Austin L Tue, 06 Oct 2009 03:54:07 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-5153 I liked it but I also didn't like it. I liked it because of all the information in it. I didn't like it because it described my life perfectly. And that means I have a he'll of a lot to change. I liked it but I also didn’t like it.

I liked it because of all the information in it.

I didn’t like it because it described my life perfectly. And that means I have a he’ll of a lot to change.

]]> By: Mark http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-2949 Mark Fri, 06 Mar 2009 20:15:39 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-2949 reply to Maggie who says (edited): "Omg, the 4th one is so true! Guys... don?t just try to be a girl?s friend when you want to be something more... Let her know off the bat that you?re interested... & that you?d like to get to know her better & become her friend." Umm, Maggie this is confusing to me, and may illustrate why some guys do it wrong (as I used to). The first and second 'friend' references seem to contradict one another. Some of what follows is just for you, but some is a general post... My upbringing strongly impressed on me that it's best to avoid talking about sex with girls; they won't like it because they don't particularly like sex. (And let me tell you, that's a cruel and crippling message to give a sensitive and impressionable young boy; it profoundly affects future relationships.) That sex taboo confused me for years, since all I had left to expect with girls (or talking to them) was the romantic or friendship angle -- which often left the *girl* confused and feeling misled if that wasn't what I really wanted. (My shyness didn't help, either.) I was great at being a friend, and "such a nice guy!" but got nowhere sexually and had only a few lasting girlfriends. I understand now that a girl wants honesty and, contrary to my upbringing, that it's *ok* to talk about (and to want) sex... that often that's all *she* wants, as I later learned through several broken hearts. As long as I'm respectful of her comfort (which I always am, no matter the subject), honesty should trump everything. I have an *idea* what you mean, Maggie -- that if the guy wants more than friendship it's best to be upfront about that *in addition to* being friendly -- and I agree. But the way you worded it, I'm not sure. These days, though I'm always friendly and respectful, I don't try to *be* a friend, confidant and all-around Boy Scout if I'm just sexually attracted to a girl. I avoid pain on both sides if I'm taking better care of my own feelings, and especially not trying to hide the sexual ones. I'm still a great listener if she wants to talk, but I don't suppress my own wants and needs anymore, and have even found that playful sex-talk is no longer so scary and sometimes has an obviously positive effect on her. Incidentally, this clarity of intentions works both ways. In my experience, females (whether they want friendship, sex, or a romantic relationship) limit the expression of that desire to vague stop and go *signals*, leaving the guy to figure out all the right approaches. I no longer engage those who play that game. And I greatly appreciate and admire the girls who are willing to shoulder some of that burden and emotional risk by approaching *him*. Few people want to hurt another or themselves, and clarity can be brutal if done insensitively or taken badly. So it can be a tough balance for everyone. For both genders, the 'dance' is exciting not just because it's fun but because it's a little scary, too. But I now know that 'scary' doesn't mean 'something to be avoided'. Quite the opposite. reply to Maggie who says (edited):
“Omg, the 4th one is so true! Guys… don?t just try to be a girl?s friend when you want to be something more… Let her know off the bat that you?re interested… & that you?d like to get to know her better & become her friend.”

Umm, Maggie this is confusing to me, and may illustrate why some guys do it wrong (as I used to). The first and second ‘friend’ references seem to contradict one another. Some of what follows is just for you, but some is a general post…

My upbringing strongly impressed on me that it’s best to avoid talking about sex with girls; they won’t like it because they don’t particularly like sex. (And let me tell you, that’s a cruel and crippling message to give a sensitive and impressionable young boy; it profoundly affects future relationships.)

That sex taboo confused me for years, since all I had left to expect with girls (or talking to them) was the romantic or friendship angle — which often left the *girl* confused and feeling misled if that wasn’t what I really wanted. (My shyness didn’t help, either.) I was great at being a friend, and “such a nice guy!” but got nowhere sexually and had only a few lasting girlfriends.

I understand now that a girl wants honesty and, contrary to my upbringing, that it’s *ok* to talk about (and to want) sex… that often that’s all *she* wants, as I later learned through several broken hearts. As long as I’m respectful of her comfort (which I always am, no matter the subject), honesty should trump everything.

I have an *idea* what you mean, Maggie — that if the guy wants more than friendship it’s best to be upfront about that *in addition to* being friendly — and I agree. But the way you worded it, I’m not sure.

These days, though I’m always friendly and respectful, I don’t try to *be* a friend, confidant and all-around Boy Scout if I’m just sexually attracted to a girl. I avoid pain on both sides if I’m taking better care of my own feelings, and especially not trying to hide the sexual ones. I’m still a great listener if she wants to talk, but I don’t suppress my own wants and needs anymore, and have even found that playful sex-talk is no longer so scary and sometimes has an obviously positive effect on her.

Incidentally, this clarity of intentions works both ways. In my experience, females (whether they want friendship, sex, or a romantic relationship) limit the expression of that desire to vague stop and go *signals*, leaving the guy to figure out all the right approaches. I no longer engage those who play that game. And I greatly appreciate and admire the girls who are willing to shoulder some of that burden and emotional risk by approaching *him*.

Few people want to hurt another or themselves, and clarity can be brutal if done insensitively or taken badly. So it can be a tough balance for everyone. For both genders, the ‘dance’ is exciting not just because it’s fun but because it’s a little scary, too. But I now know that ’scary’ doesn’t mean ’something to be avoided’. Quite the opposite.

]]> By: Big B http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-2894 Big B Wed, 25 Feb 2009 11:55:36 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-2894 This is a very biased review. You don't have to be a jerk to meet women, just have a pair, and be yourself. If 'yourself' sucks, then don't bother and just be a lonely loser for the rest of your life (guy or girl). Women like a man who is confident, competent, courteous, compassionate, and yes...COCKY! I think this is a poorly written review... This is a very biased review. You don’t have to be a jerk to meet women, just have a pair, and be yourself. If ‘yourself’ sucks, then don’t bother and just be a lonely loser for the rest of your life (guy or girl). Women like a man who is confident, competent, courteous, compassionate, and yes…COCKY! I think this is a poorly written review…

]]> By: James http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-2803 James Wed, 11 Feb 2009 16:32:24 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-2803 You can quote from the post, but please don't repost the entire text. Thanks! You can quote from the post, but please don’t repost the entire text. Thanks!

]]> By: cherry http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-2802 cherry Wed, 11 Feb 2009 16:29:25 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-2802 hi, can i repost this to my site? i'll just mention you and your site for the credits. thanks! hi, can i repost this to my site? i’ll just mention you and your site for the credits. thanks!

]]> By: Maggie http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-2796 Maggie Wed, 11 Feb 2009 00:12:21 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-2796 Omg, the 4th one is so true! Guys, don't try to sneak your way into a relationship ninja-style. Speaking from personal experience, don't just try to be a girl's friend when you want to be something more. We appreciate a little honesty. Let her know off the bat that you're interested (but be classy about it) & that you'd like to get to know her better & become her friend. Omg, the 4th one is so true! Guys, don’t try to sneak your way into a relationship ninja-style. Speaking from personal experience, don’t just try to be a girl’s friend when you want to be something more. We appreciate a little honesty. Let her know off the bat that you’re interested (but be classy about it) & that you’d like to get to know her better & become her friend.

]]> By: Cato http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-2734 Cato Tue, 03 Feb 2009 21:09:34 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-2734 kristin did you read this thing very well? it said nice guys sit back in the corner, you probably havent met one if theyve all turned out to be total asses at some point. (not that you havent been an ass yourself cuz i know i have). regardless, people as a general statement are predictable. i think women are to much trouble anyhow and one of these days a gorgeous blonde that is obsessed with fishing is going to fall right into my lap. until then, happy hunting ill be the quiet one in the corner. kristin did you read this thing very well? it said nice guys sit back in the corner, you probably havent met one if theyve all turned out to be total asses at some point. (not that you havent been an ass yourself cuz i know i have). regardless, people as a general statement are predictable. i think women are to much trouble anyhow and one of these days a gorgeous blonde that is obsessed with fishing is going to fall right into my lap. until then, happy hunting ill be the quiet one in the corner.

]]> By: chickmagnetstuff http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-2597 chickmagnetstuff Wed, 07 Jan 2009 15:18:04 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-2597 true don't try to be a jerk, jerks suck just be yourself true don’t try to be a jerk, jerks suck just be yourself

]]> By: Kristen http://www.justaguything.com/the-top-5-things-jerks-do-to-get-women/comment-page-1/#comment-2555 Kristen Wed, 31 Dec 2008 15:32:18 +0000 http://www.justaguything.com/?p=483#comment-2555 Interesting article, but a lot of it is crud. 1) 'Nice guys' don't exist, we all have good and bad parts to our nature. Your typical 'nice guy' is BOUND to act like a complete ass at somepoint. 2) There's no specific 'attitude' that girls go for. Every girl is attracted to different personalities. Some girls even like to be the ones doing the chasing! 3) 'Nice guys', be yourselves, and you will find someone who suits you perfectly. Confidence will not just come because you demand it to, or because you act like you don't care. Learn to have a fulfilling life without a girlfriend, and the ease and confidence will come naturally. Be self-assured that you have a great life and are happy - and a girlfriend that complements your life will follow. Stop looking for someone who will stop you from being alone or 'pathetic' - that in itself is the highest order of patheticness. Good luck! Interesting article, but a lot of it is crud.
1) ‘Nice guys’ don’t exist, we all have good and bad parts to our nature. Your typical ‘nice guy’ is BOUND to act like a complete ass at somepoint.
2) There’s no specific ‘attitude’ that girls go for. Every girl is attracted to different personalities. Some girls even like to be the ones doing the chasing!
3) ‘Nice guys’, be yourselves, and you will find someone who suits you perfectly. Confidence will not just come because you demand it to, or because you act like you don’t care. Learn to have a fulfilling life without a girlfriend, and the ease and confidence will come naturally. Be self-assured that you have a great life and are happy – and a girlfriend that complements your life will follow. Stop looking for someone who will stop you from being alone or ‘pathetic’ – that in itself is the highest order of patheticness.

Good luck!

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